SKILLS

Notice what
others miss.

Reading and listening are not scavenger hunts for the 'right' answer. The interesting part begins when you notice something, ask why it matters and decide whether the information deserves your trust.

READING

What made you stop?

Which sentence deserves a second look?

Don't underline everything. Find the moment where something shifts, jars, surprises or refuses to fit.

LISTENING

What did you hear besides the words?

When does tone tell you more than vocabulary?

Listen for hesitation, certainty, emotion, emphasis and what a speaker carefully avoids saying.

MEDIA

Who wants you to believe this?

What earns your trust?

Ask who created it, for whom, why, with what evidence — and what would make you change your mind.

MISSING FILE

What's not here?

Whose voice is absent?

Sometimes the most useful information is the perspective, fact or question that never appears.

ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE

Could a reasonable person see this differently?

Try the strongest other reading.

Not because disagreement is automatically clever, but because your own view becomes stronger when it survives a fair challenge.

TALK ABOUT IT

Close the laptop.

Can five minutes with another human change your mind?

Explain your view. Listen properly. Ask one real follow-up question. You may return with a different answer.

PD'S RULE

Attention before interpretation.

🐦“If everything is highlighted, nothing is highlighted. A small tragedy in fluorescent yellow.”
ONE QUESTION TO KEEP
What do you notice when you stop looking for the answer you think you're supposed to find?